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8 ways to win her heart!

Oh, the heart. Such a powerful organ in our body. Without it, we wouldn’t be alive. It beats for us, but it can also beat for another human being. I am one of those girls who gush over cute little text messages in the morning or before bed and what girl doesn’t love to get sweet comments on her Instagram selfie??? Am I right ladies?

But that only scrapes the surface of the top 10 ways to win a girl’s heart over! It takes much, MUCH more than that guys… C’mon.
Let’s get into it :)
(In no particular order)

1. Good listener with good memory
I love a guy who remembers cute, dorky, or weird things about me. Maybe something I only mentioned to him once, and he brings it up nonchalantly in a conversation with me, it will definitely make me blush just a bit. I think it’s quite a turn on when a guy will take something I said, tuck it back into his brain as a side mental note, but always remember it. It shows that you do care about me because you’re willing to listen to the things I say about myself and most importantly to remember these things.

2. Not your “typical date”
When we think of a date we usually think of, dinner, followed by a few drinks, maybe a movie, and then call it a night. But how many times can that really go on- and on – and on? You see my drift here?
I would love a guy to switch it up, keep it fresh and exciting every single time we hang out. Don’t get me wrong, I love the nights where we stay in cuddled up on the couch with a bag of popcorn and a great movie, what I am talking about it “date night.” Take me to a museum, take me to a play or a musical, take me a funky hole in the wall restaurant we BOTH have never tried. It’s dates like THAT will keep me interested :)

3. Surprises
Let’s face it, I’m a girl. So of course, it is practically a given I love surprises just as much as the next girl. Nothing super extravagant, but little things just to express how much I mean to you. Bring me chocolate at work when you know I’m having a tough day, or surprise me with a big bowl of soup when I’m feeling under the weather. You do that, and I think my heart might just pitter-patter for you!

4. Express
Although us girls like to pretend we know exactly what you are thinking, and feeling at any given moment.. Truth is, we don’t. I think we assume more than we really know. So, when a guy is pretty confident in the way he feels and can express it… That is a huge plus! I want to know how you feel, maybe not just about me in general but about everything. I can’t read your mind, although I would love to have that super power. Don’t be afraid to say how you feel because chances are, she feels the same way too. Too often, we wait for guys to make the first initial move on the love boat to emotion-land, and that is where we tend to go wrong sometimes. Just tell us how you feel, don’t leave us guessing.

5. Beauty & brains
Have you ever met a cute guy with a perfect smile, bangin’ body, and dressed like he was straight out of a calvin klein magazine? What could possibly be wrong with him, right? Then you come to find out he is a complete idiot. I know I have definitely experienced this. It’s such a bummer and can definitely be quite disappointing. BUT…. A guy with brains is a major turn on! I’m not expecting every guy to be Einstein, but it would be nice to have a complex conversation with someone who is well educated and smart. Keeps the spark in our interest and we can learn a thing or two from you. As a woman, we want a man who can continue to help us grow and vice versa.

6. Please & Thank you’s go a long way
A lot of guys can be total dicks sometimes, sorry guys… But you can be. But a man with manners, is sexy. You’d be surprised how much a simple “Please” and “Thank you” can go. Your mama taught you better than that.

7. Like the Spice Girls once said, “If you wanna be my lova, you gotta get with my friends.”
I admire a guy who finds it just as important to get to know my friends, as much as he gets to know more about me. Our friends are our biggest support system. Our friends are here BEFORE any guy, and if you’re lucky enough, they will be there for you AFTER he has already gone by. A guy who makes it an effort to get to know my friends on a personal level, definitely has a place in my heart.

So that completes the list of the top 7 ways to win a girl’s heart. Of course, it was in no particular order but you guys better start taking notes :)

Goodnight xoxo

Sar

Goodbye Summer, Hello Fall!

I am super, duper excited that summer is finally coming to an end and the fall weather/ season is approaching!!! Ahhhh!!! Can’t contain my excitement.
For those of you who know me personally know that I hate summer. Growing up in a small town where the weather can literally reach up to 122 degrees in the summer, you’d think I’d be use to it and not such a big deal. Well, you’re wrong. I hate the summer, and I think because I grew up in the desert it makes me hate it even more.
Reasons I hate summer: I hate being hot, it is such an uncomfortable feeling and makes me very irritable. My make-up just melts off my face and that is never a good look. And maybe this is just me being bitter, but I can’t really wear “summer clothing.” I am not a skinny, petite girl so I can’t simply walk around in crop tops and booty shorts. As much as I would love to and think they are incredibly adorable, I can’t wear clothing like that. Not very flattering for my body, and I’m sure no one wants to see that. So, those are the reasons why I hate summer.
But ENOUGH NEGATIVITY, I am freakin’ excited for this Fall weather. And in honor of my wonderful excitement, I decided to put together a little fashion blog today and talk about my fall essentials! There are just a few things you want to have for the fall season that can bring any outfit from drab — to FAB.

First, every girl must have a go-to scarf.
I know that I have tons!! Different colors, patterns, lengths and materials. It can really bring an outfit all together, and give it that comfy fall weather feel to it. Pair a harsh patterned scarf over a flowy white top and you’re done! Yes, that easy. Fall fashion is all about layering, and scarves make this part easy peezy.

Second, oversized cardigans/ sweaters
How can you not love oversized cardigans, and sweaters? I can tell you right now, my closet is FULL of them! I nearly have every color, knit fabric, and length of these bad boys. They are definitely my go-to for fall. A great oversized cardigan can make me feel comfortable, but cute. And that is exactly the look I am going for this fall season. Make it look effortless, that is the goal ladies.

Third, jewelry
As I said before, fall fashion is all about layering. And I am not just talking about clothes here guys, I mean jewelry too! Wearing tons of bracelets, pairing it with your favorite rose gold watch, or layering your pretty little fingers with rings and mid-rings. This fall season, it is all about jewelry. It can really give your fall outfit a “classy” dressed up look, while still looking effortless. Some of my favorite places to buy jewelry are, Urban Outfitters, Brandy Melville, and online at Etsy.

What do you guys think about the fall seaon/ weather approaching?? Are you guys just as excited as I am? Probably not, because I am just a freak who seems to get excited about these sorts of things. But I will keep my excitement at bay… for now :)

Take the poll below, I would love to hear what you guys love most about the fall season.
Til next time,

xo Sarah

Top 10 Things Guys Do That Annoy Me

Hi readers!

If you’re like me, then I know you have said to yourself “God, I hate when he does that” or “He is really annoying me right now.” Come on ladies, I know I can’t be the only one here. And isn’t it funny that although the men in our lives do the most annoying possible things to us, we still seem to find them attractive, uberly cute and the most perfect human being we’ve ever seen. Almost as if no matter what they do, or say we will not allow ourselves to judge them based on those things. But, they sure do get under our skin and annoy the HECK out of us. I guess that’s what they call love, right?

But scratch the love part, we aren’t focusing on that today.
What we are focusing on is the 10 most annoying things a guy can do to either — A. Piss me off
B. Turn me off
C. Both A & B

Let’s get to the list! And before I even begin to start with this wonderful, creative and fun list, I want to point out that I am not bashing ANY GUY WHATSOEVER. So, before we start pointing fingers I want to make sure I cover my ground and save my ass. With that being said, let’s get started :)

1. If I text you a long message and you reply back “Ok” or “Oh”… There’s a problem.
2. You act one way through text messages, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook etc.. But in person, you are completely different.
Example: “You’re so beautiful, I can’t wait to see you so I can kiss and hold you.” And then in person, none of that happens.
3. Liars. Enough said there.
4. If you like me, tell me. If you don’t like me, tell me.
You’d be surprised how much girls would be willing to keep a friendship, even if you don’t like them in that sorta way. Honesty is key here, and that is why we hate #3. LOL
5. Cocky < Confident
We get it, you are a man. But there is a huge difference between being a confident person, and being a straight up cocky person.
6. Manners. Please and Thank you’s go a long way. We know that your mama taught you better than that.
7. Respect. I’m taking it back to kindergarten, “Treat others how you want to be treated.”
8. Girls love to feel safe, and secure. But some guys take that a little to the extreme… Don’t be obsessive or controlling. We have a dad for that part, and that position has been filled.
9. “Send me a pic.” Ok– seriously, this needs to be stopped.
10. Don’t bash your friends or family. If you can say nasty and hurtful things about your family and closest friends, I could only imagine the things you say about me behind my back. Don’t be fake.

Ok guys, so there it is! The top 10 things a guy can do to annoy me (in no particular order) I’m sure the list could go on, and on… But I wanted to keep the list pretty short today LOL.

Have a great night guys,

Til next time
xo Sarah

Inside the mind of a woman

Hello lovies!

Okay, so lately I’ve been hearing so much complaining from all the men in my life about how difficult and confusing the mind of a woman is. That got me to thinking, are we really as confusing as men make us out to be? Are women truly that difficult to understand and please? Am I considered to be one of these “typical women” who can’t be figured out by a man because I’m from venus? So here is what I came up with…

I believe that every woman on this planet is uniquely made. We are NOT all alike, and if you believe that every woman is exactly the same.. You have other issues, my friend. But that doesn’t ignore the fact that I do strongly believe that many women share common similarities involving our actions, words, or sensitivity. All these characteristics may vary, but I will take you to the inside of the mind of a woman. It’s a scary place… You have been warned.

Every guy seems to think that all girls are all about the bigger, the better! Whether it’s a car, a ring, or a house. Don’t get me wrong here, we love a big car, big ring, and a big beautiful house… But what guys don’t seem to understand is that sometimes the simple, teeny-tiny things that you do for us, makes up for all the other big things that we could care less about. Ever heard the saying, “It’s the thought that lionroarsmall_grandecounts” well… It is true! A woman would rather you put a lot of thought into a special gift, than walk into a jewelry store and pick out a piece that’s the largest and most expensive. ¬†Of course, I can’t speak for ALL women.. but I’m pretty sure I can speak for most of us (at least the ones with our heads screwed on right!).

I can’t emphasize enough on how truly important it is for a man to show his affection towards a woman he truly loves and cares about. Of course, this works vice versa as well because I know how important it is for a man to receive affection from his woman. This should be a key component in any relationship, but in this new generation of technology advancements and the ability to show affection in different ways because it’s not just physical now. Not exactly sure what I’m talking about? Think about it… Every woman loves to be mentioned in his Facebook status, his tweet, even his Instagram for #WCW (woman crush Wednesday). Social networking has really improved the ability for someone to show affection, who may not be so comfortable showing it physically. And guys, take notes here. Every woman loves this. No woman will admit this, but we love when you show us off and make us feel as if we are your “entire world” it makes us feel good about ourselves. Treat your woman like a queen, and she will treat you like a king.

Til next time,

xo Sarah